Nearly everyone, regardless of age wants to be accepted by others. That’s why it hurts so much to be left out and ignored, as if you were invisible – just someone in the background. And sometimes, the more you struggle to fit in, the more disappointed you can feel.
Avoid the dead ends to social success:
Isolation – clearly, retreating into a shell will just make matters worse.
Desperation – Some people are so desperate to fit in that they fall into the wrong crowd – thinking that any friends are better than no friends.
What can you do?
Take the initiative – reach out to others.
Develop conversation skills – by listening, asking questions, and showing genuine concern.
~Bottom line, to make friends and fit in, you have to be friendly.~